“Only put off until tomorrow what you are willing to die having left undone”
― Pablo Picasso
“You may delay, but time will not.”
― Benjamin Franklin
Time does not slow down for us. It keeps steaming ahead, whether we use our time wisely or not. I don’t know about anyone else, but I really struggle with staying focused and not procrastinating. Just take one look at my blog to see how well I have been doing at staying on top of my goals. When I first began this blog, I was hoping to put up a blog at least once a week, but the last blog post I have written was in March (three months ago). I use the excuse that I have been crazy busy, but even then, if I really put in effort, I’m sure I still could’ve written more posts during that time. Yet, that is how procrastination works. Every day, you think, “Oh, I do not want to do that today, I’ll just do it tomorrow” or become sucked into Netflix or scrolling through social media. All the time I spent on watching movies or shows or scrolling through Instagram has not really added anything to my life, but it sure has taken away all my time.
I have been pretty disappointed in myself on several mediums. First, with this blog. Second, with my goal to study and learn Korean. Third, to read more. Fourth, to write more. Fifth, to exercise and help myself a little bit in getting back into dancing shape. These are just a few that come to mind.
The last time I danced (besides the random spurts in my room or at school)? November. Last time I wrote? March, when I wrote my last blog post. Last time I read? Maybe February? It’s sad I don’t even know. How often have I studied Korean? Maybe I’ve studied a day or two a month.
I have seen no progress in myself in these areas I really want to see progress in.
I am trying to think how I can keep myself motivated and how I can make these desires into habits. People say writing down small attainable goals help, but honestly…It rarely helps me. I wish I knew the secret to how I can push myself into keeping my goals. So I am writing this post in order to help me (and hopefully you too) find a solution or an incentive to keep up with these goals that keep evading me and, I’m sure, some of you as well.
I just need to tell myself to do what I need to do in order to accomplish my goals instead of watching Netflix. I need to stop going on social media frequently. And maybe, if I go to bed earlier and wake up earlier, I’ll become a little more productive.
I do give myself some grace, though, since I have a difficult and busy job and understand there may be some weeks I am busier than others. However, if I can get myself to work towards my goal during this busy season, I will be more likely to talk myself into doing it during my less busy seasons.
Procrastination: The Thief of Time
“Procrastination is the thief of time, collar him.”
― Charles Dickens, David Copperfield
When I see quotes like the one above, I find them to be so true. I really do think procrastination can be the thief of time. I often fill my days doing things that do not benefit me or help me to grow as a person. Which is definitely not what I want.
So, I want to change that aspect of myself. Therefore, I am deciding to focus on one of my goals. I chose to first focus on learning Korean since I will only be in Korea for three more months, and am currently in the prime area of the world to learn Korean. I have always wanted to learn another language, but, after of all the languages I have put effort into learning (French, Japanese, and Korean), I come away the same monolingual person I was before. The reason is I do not stay on top of my language learning or become distracted in learning another language.
For the past week, I have studied Korean a little bit (about an hour) every day, which is the best I have ever done in studying Korean and have already gotten farther (starting from the beginning to review) in any of my Korean books than I have in the past nine months… I set some goals and am trying my best to stick with them. We’ll see how I do.
In order to help myself stay motivated and defeat this thief of time, I have been trying to remember all the advice I have read in the past on how to achieve your goals. Here are a few:
- Write Down Your Goals
They say writing down your goals helps you to actually see what you want to achieve and are no longer just a vague wish in your mind. They are now concrete goals.
- Make Sure You Have Smaller Goals to Meet Your Bigger Goals
If all you see are your big goals (ex: the ability to speak Korean), they might overwhelm you. You might convince yourself it’s too hard to attain and will lose faith in your ability to accomplish. Therefore, you will not do anything to work towards those goals. However, if you make smaller, baby-step goals, you might be more willing to work towards your bigger goals.
- Write Down Your Motivation for Why You Want to Achieve Your Goals
When you write down your motivation and read it regularly, it can help you to push past those days you do not want to do anything towards your goal. You will think, “This is why I want to achieve this goal, and that is more important to me than being lazy or doing something that is not working towards this goal.” Your motivation can motivate you.
- Don’t Give Yourself the Option of Opting Out
Often, the reason we do not do something is because we think, “I can do this another time.” If we force ourselves to make it a necessity in our life rather than an option, we will be more likely to keep going. I do think this works as long as you can keep yourself motivated. Every time I did succeed in regularly achieving my goals, it was because I did not leave myself the option of opting out of it every day. It became an obligation or assignment that needed to be done by the end of the day and could not be turned in late.
- Give Yourself Rewards When You Achieve a Goal
Sometimes, in order to help you stay motivated, you need to give yourself an award or some incentive when you reach a goal. This will help you to stay on task when you think, “After I achieve this goal, I can do or have this.” I have yet to try this, so maybe I’ll think of some ways of rewarding myself!
I’m sure there are many, many others, but these were a few that came to mind.
Anyways, maybe we can help each other by working together towards our goals in order to make them a reality! Let us fight the battle against procrastination to prevent it from stealing our precious time out from under us! We are not getting younger. Time will just become quicker the older we become. Let’s be stewards of our time!
—The Adversity Rose—
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