Each life is made up of mistakes and learning, waiting and growing, practicing patience and being persistent. –Billy Graham
The last life update I made was at the beginning of March, so it is about time for me to make an update for my family and friends back home. The post I made in March was before my new semester here in South Korea began. I knew I would be busy the first few weeks of the new semester since I would be getting used to new classes, new students, and new books. However, I was not quite ready enough for the length of the time it would take me to get used to the new semester. Hence, part of the reason why I have not made a life update. So here is my overdue but short update!
I knew teaching three- and four-year-olds who have never been in school and know no English would be hard, but…man, is it hard! Nothing quite like waving at a bunch of babies who have no idea what you are saying and are crying for mommies or because they need to go to the restroom (and I am unfortunately unaware because my Korean level is low). However, I really enjoyed it, despite it being hard. Well…Actually, let me rephrase that.
I am teaching two separate groups of three- and four-year old children—one group in the morning, one group in the afternoon. My morning group was hard but I thoroughly enjoyed teaching them. They listened, and, even though they cried a lot, seemed to picking up what I was teaching them rather quickly. As the weeks and months went on, they became so sweet to me and began joking a lot more like my classes last semester did (which I had been missing). However, my afternoon group was another story.
Having taught in South Korea for about six or seven months by then, I thought teaching wouldn’t get any worse and would be just as enjoyable as it was the semester before. But, boy, was I wrong. I quickly discovered my afternoon class had a very different makeup of student personalities than my morning group did. I mean, yeah it can be pretty annoying when you are trying to teach a class but no one is listening. However, when you add that to students yelling at me for turning videos off, throwing their books and crayons across the room, screaming at the top of their high-pitched voices when they didn’t get their way, kicking me, hitting me, biting me, prodding me, yanking on my hair, throwing shoes at me, doing the same to each other, and running circles around the room, hallway, and bathrooms…I was overwhelmed. I felt abused, even if they were just three-year-olds.
I was exhausted from all the crying, screaming, and the feeling that I could not control them no matter what I did. Luckily, I think I only cried once because of them. The rest of my time was spent laughing out of incredulity. Three different teachers teach this class (including me), and all three of us are having quite the hard time. I think it says a lot about the class when the director of the school comes in multiple times (almost every day in the beginning of the semester) to help out with the class. And a handful of other teachers. Even though I do love the students individually, I must say I do not like them as a class whatsoever.
Therefore, the month of March was the longest month of my life. And then, the worst student of the class left, and I felt I could breathe just a little (though it was still a crazy hard class). I don’t remember a lot about that month other than the horrors (haha, I’m only partially kidding) that happened in that one classroom. I just remember March felt like it was never ending. But I’ve been surviving well. Just praying for more patience with them, more stamina, and for them to steadily become better.
My other classes, though, are all great and are enjoyable to teach, which I am relieved about.
However, to move on from the subject of work, I have finally found a church! I must say, I wish I could have found it much earlier, but I am glad to finally have a place I can go. It was a night and day experience from the first church I attended here in Daegu. I really am enjoying the church I’ve settled on for the duration of my time left here. The first time I attended their service, from the moment I walked into the auditorium, I immediately felt at home. The people there were so friendly and welcoming and I thoroughly enjoyed the service. Praise God for answered prayers!
Since the beginning of March, I have also had the privilege of traveling around Korea some more! I was able to visit the Cherry Blossom Festival in Jinhae in March, which was beautiful and relaxing. I even was able to taste some yummy cherry blossom ice cream (it was incredibly soft).
In April, I was able to attend a Nu’Est (k-pop) concert which was a blast. Though, I am still surprised about how silly fangirls can be.
In May, my cousin came to visit me and we went on a short trip to Jeju, where we hiked Mt. Halla (tallest mountain in South Korea). Mt. Halla was quite the adventure (a bit of a painful adventure, but we came away with a few laughs).
I am now down to my last three months in South Korea. It is definitely bittersweet. Although I am excited to see family, friends, and my boyfriend and to breathe fresh air again, I am sad at the thought of leaving Korea and the life I have been living here. However, I am already looking into plans for heading back, and, of course, into my plans for after Korea. I’m happy to say I have a plan for after Korea! God is pretty amazing and I am excited for what is to come!
This is what I have been up to the last few months! Looking forward to what God has in store for me during my last three months here!
—The Adversity Rose—
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